【フリーターだから彼女ができない】は大きな間違い!意識すべきはひとつだけ

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『フリーターだから彼女ができない』

 

こんな風に、フリーターのあなたは彼女を作ることを諦めていませんか?

これは大きな間違い。なんで言い切れるかというと、ぼく自身がフリーターをしていた時に彼女がいたことがあるからです。別にイケメンでもなんでもありません。

異性と話す時にたったひとつのことを意識すれば、フリーターのあなたにも彼女はできます!

 

結論から言いますと、《自分に自信を持つ》こと。たったこれだけです。

 

この記事では、

  • なぜ自信を持つことが大切なのか
  • 自分に自信をつける方法

この2つについて、ぼくの体験談を交えながら解説していきます。

この記事を読めば、フリーターだから彼女ができないと諦めかけていたあなたもきっと自信が湧いてくるはずです。

 

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フリーターだから彼女ができない?そんなの嘘です

フリーターでも彼女はできます。安心してください。

 

ぼくの具体的な体験談を話しますね。

フリーターをしていた期間は約2年間。その間にできた彼女は2人。どーせ、学生時代からの知り合いなんじゃないの?なんて思いましたよね。

でも違うんです。2人の女性とは、フリーター時代に初めて知り合った方たちなのです。

 

ちなみにぼくはイケメンでもなんでもなくて、可もなく不可もなくといったところでしょうか。笑

そう考えると、顔は関係ない。

 

では、フリーターのぼくがなぜ2人の女性と付き合うことができたのか。

それは、《自分に自信があったから》これだけです。

 

あなたはフリーターをしている時点で、自分に自信が持てないから【彼女ができない】ってどこか思い込んでいませんか?フリーターをしている自分には、経済力がないから、高学歴じゃないから。

 

でも、女性はそんなことは関係ないと思っている方が多いのが現実です。

こんなアンケート結果があります。

参照:彼氏に求める条件で一番いらないスペックランキング!

 

高学歴も高収入もいらないと答える人が実際にいるんです。女性はぼくらが思っているよりも、純粋で優しい生き物なのかもしれません。笑

 

意識すべきはひとつだけ!自分に自信を持つことが1番大切

ぼくはフリーター時代に2人の女性と付き合っていましたが、2人の女性に同じ質問をしたことがあります。

 

「フリーターの俺となんで付き合ってくれたの?」

 

こんなことを聞くと、2人とも同じようなことを言ったのです。

 

「自分のやりたいことが明確で、かっこよく感じたから」

 

ああ、なるほどなと思いました。

ぼくは飲食店にてフリーターをしていましたが、将来的には1人前の料理人として働くと豪語していたんですよね。つまり、自分のやりたいことがしっかりと決まっていたからこそ、自然と自分に自信があったというわけです。

 

話しは変わりますが、バンドマンってめちゃくちゃモテる印象がありませんか?笑

確かに自分の音楽を表現する様は、男のぼくが見てもカッコよく感じます。でも、本質的なことをいえば、女性は夢を追いかけて自分に自信がある人に弱いんだと思います。

 

自分はフリーターだから…そんな風に自分を「つまらないもの」だと言う前提で女性と接したとしても、その自信のなさは伝わりますし、そもそもあなたに興味を持ってくれません。

 

自分に自信につける方法は、小さな成功体験を積み上げるのみ

じゃあ、立派な夢を持たなきゃいけないのかというとそんなこともありません。

今はフリーターをしているけど、自分は絶対にどうにかなる!そんな根拠のない自信を持っているだけで、あなたの魅力はグッと上がります。

 

どうやったら自信がつくのか。

それは、小さな成功体験をひたすら積み上げるしかありません。

簡単なことで言えば、毎朝8時に起きるという《自分との約束》を守ることだって小さな成功体験です。

あとは、登山・ヒッチハイク・国内ひとり旅・海外ひとり旅。これらは全部ぼく自身がフリーター期間にやったことです。

フリーターは時間が自由にコントロールできるというのが1番のメリット。どんどんやったことのないことにチャレンジしてみる、そうするといつしか自分に自信がついていることに気がつきますよ。

 

正社員になるだけで自分に自信がつくなら、さっさと就職したらいい

とはいえ、そんな回りくどいことをしなくたっていいと思います。

あなたはフリーターだから彼女ができないと思っているわけですよね?だったら就職して、正社員になったらいいんですよ。正社員になったということが自信につながりますから。

そうすると、女性への接し方がフリーター時代とは間違いなく変わってくるはずです。

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